Anonymous asked:

my friends have shut me out and keep doing things without me, going out and hanging out without inviting me and no of them speak to me any more within the last 2 months or so. especially now that's summer holiday but now i have no one to hangout with and i just always feel so lonely and sad when i see pictures they post on facebook. what should i do? i have no friends left and do,t know how to make friends

cutiebum answered:

this happened to me, i decided they weren’t worth my time. Do NOT waste your time on people who don’t want to spend their time with you, find people who are just like you, people you can laugh with and not try hard around. I lost so many people but I’m so much happier now, the friends I have now like me for me, I may not have many and some may live miles away but it’s better than having lots of people who don’t actually care. I know it feels lonely now, but you need to realise that the only way to be happy is to cut any badness out of your life and look for people that only do you good :) If you ever need anybody to talk to I’ll have a natter with you, I know how much loneliness sucks! Hope you’re okay



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  • most muslims aren’t arabs
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a reality check that’s a blow to the solar plexis

SEE ALSO: why i’m crumbling under the weight of prolonged loneliness for fear of letting anyone in again & repeating this


See also disabled kids and parents.
A lot a lot a lot of parents are perfectly acceptable parents until they have disabled children. They start to blame us for shit and say we deserve what they give us. my mom was a decent mother until she had me.

i hardly ever see campaigns like this.

If a person truly cares then they shouldn’t mind caring for the disabled person.

  • Me: Daddy, am I ever too needy?
  • Daddy: All Littles are needy, princess.
  • Me: Yes, I know, sillybutt, but am I TOO needy? I ask for juice and snacks and bath and hair brushies and back rubs and playtime and for you to put my phone on my charger and-
  • Daddy: Did you ever think maybe I need to do those things for you? That it helps me, too?
  • Me: No, but-
  • Daddy: Did you ever think maybe Daddy is a Daddy because he needs to feel needed? He needs to take care of someone and feels incomplete when he can't?
  • Me: No, but-
  • Daddy: Shh baby. Yes, you're needy, but Daddy needs you to be needy. Daddy is needy for your neediness. Understand, needibutt?
  • Me: Yes, Daddy. May I have juice please?
  • Daddy: No.
  • Me: WHA-?
  • Daddy: Just kidding baby. Daddy will get you juice, AND a snicky-snack, AND put on a movie. You snuggle your stuffie and be pretty. Daddy loves you, darling.